{"id":7128,"date":"2023-08-31T16:16:51","date_gmt":"2023-08-31T13:16:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/?post_type=pocket-coach-archiv&#038;p=7128"},"modified":"2023-07-23T16:28:10","modified_gmt":"2023-07-23T13:28:10","slug":"your-environment-doesnt-hear-what-you-say-but-what-you-think","status":"publish","type":"pocket-coach-archiv","link":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/pocket-coach-archive\/your-environment-doesnt-hear-what-you-say-but-what-you-think\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Environment Doesn&#8217;t Hear What You Say, But What You Think"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>You&#8217;re invited. To your mother-in-law&#8217;s place. And you&#8217;re already dreading it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Deep breath&#8221;, you tell yourself. &#8220;I&#8217;ll ignore her snide comments and otherwise I&#8217;ll just smile and keep my thoughts to myself.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What do you think the atmosphere will be like? Tense or relaxed? That thick air that you could cut with a knife, what do you think makes it so dense?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s the thoughts and the associated emotions that seem to waft in the air. And everyone can feel them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, we are often like a child who covers its closed eyes with its hands and believes that others can&#8217;t see it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Similarly, we often deceive ourselves into believing that people can&#8217;t hear what we think about them. Oh, but they can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conversely, we also somehow sense when someone dislikes us, even when nice words are exchanged, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s a law of nature: Your environment doesn&#8217;t hear what you say, but what you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good news?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you think nice things about your environment, others &#8216;hear&#8217; it too, and you yourself become kinder, more forgiving, more authentic, and more attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the end, it&#8217;s a good thing that people can indeed look behind your forehead or listen in. Use it to your advantage!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself: What could I think about my partner, my family, my friends to spread a pleasant atmosphere?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But beware, it could change your life! \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You&#8217;re invited. To your mother-in-law&#8217;s place. And you&#8217;re already dreading it. &#8220;Deep breath&#8221;, you tell yourself. &#8220;I&#8217;ll ignore her snide comments and otherwise I&#8217;ll just smile and keep my thoughts<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":7120,"menu_order":0,"template":"","format":"standard","pocket-coach-kategorie":[40],"class_list":["post-7128","pocket-coach-archiv","type-pocket-coach-archiv","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","pocket-coach-kategorie-thinking","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-archiv\/7128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-archiv"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/pocket-coach-archiv"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7120"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"pocket-coach-kategorie","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-kategorie?post=7128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}