{"id":7103,"date":"2023-08-10T13:41:01","date_gmt":"2023-08-10T10:41:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/?post_type=pocket-coach-archiv&#038;p=7103"},"modified":"2023-07-23T13:45:31","modified_gmt":"2023-07-23T10:45:31","slug":"transform-annoying-comments-into-your-strength","status":"publish","type":"pocket-coach-archiv","link":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/pocket-coach-archive\/transform-annoying-comments-into-your-strength\/","title":{"rendered":"Transform &#8216;Annoying Comments&#8217; Into Your Strength"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Those sentences that somehow instantly drive you up the WALL.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That OUTRAGE you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or the ones that you hear over and over again and for the life of you, don&#8217;t understand why!?!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;For example, I can&#8217;t take criticism&#8221;. Bah! What AUDACITY!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I run away from my problems&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m TOO sensitive!!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, I&#8217;m certainly not going to tell you that these and similar sentences will ever feel good. Criticism never feels good. That&#8217;s just how it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But ask yourself: WHY does this comment UPSET me SO MUCH?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hard words? Transform &#8216;Annoying Comments&#8217; Into Your Strength<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Does it perhaps expose a weakness of mine that I should really pay attention to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Could it be possible that the person might not be entirely wrong?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can approach it quite pragmatically. Put your pride and the hurt feelings aside for a moment and see HOW YOU CAN REACT to this situation so that it BENEFITS you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Consider the comments as VALUABLE CUES. Put on the RESEARCHER&#8217;S GLASSES and analyze yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t see the person as your enemy, but as a signpost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can&#8217;t lose anyway. Because either you win or you learn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;ll work out for sure!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Those sentences that somehow instantly drive you up the WALL. That OUTRAGE you! Or the ones that you hear over and over again and for the life of you, don&#8217;t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":7102,"menu_order":0,"template":"","format":"standard","pocket-coach-kategorie":[42,40],"class_list":["post-7103","pocket-coach-archiv","type-pocket-coach-archiv","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","pocket-coach-kategorie-feelings","pocket-coach-kategorie-thinking","generate-columns","tablet-grid-50","mobile-grid-100","grid-parent","grid-33"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-archiv\/7103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-archiv"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/pocket-coach-archiv"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"pocket-coach-kategorie","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alternateve-denken.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pocket-coach-kategorie?post=7103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}